Is being Non-Emotional “THE THING” for this millennium?

Okay, so let’s face it – we all have thought about it for at least ONCE in our lifetime.

“FINE, I’ve had it enough! This time, I’m gonna be oh-so-non-emotional”

But the question is do we really feel that from within or is it just another emotional gesture for a less-emotional person’s emotionless reaction to your selfless act/feeling?

• Do this species called as “The Less-emotional” or “the Non-Emotional” really exist?
• Or are they just some deceptive form of normal, emotional human beings?
• Can’t it be truer that some people actually LACK the art of expressing their emotional self?
• OR
• As in cases of most men (and at times, women) are AFRAID of being expressed (exposed emotionally) in the first place?
• {OR Some other alien feeling (that I can’t think of right now)- ?}

Doubt No. 1: – Do these type of people also AT TIMES feel the need to express flawlessly?
If yes, isn’t that an emotion for fulfilling a practical requirement? Do they express at least this to their loved ones?
If no, have they totally surrendered to the fact(?) that they CAN’T Express?

Doubt No. 2: – Are these kind of people more emotionally vulnerable than any of us? Is it actually a fear of being transparent to others that’s more scary or it’s scarier getting emotionally rejected more pronounced?

Whatever it be, Next question is "How do we deal with such people?"

• Is it wiser to accept them with their deceptive ‘Non-Emotional’mask?
• Is it better to introduce them to their innerselves – gradually? (provided if they allow u nearby) OR
• Is it better to let them hurt you emotionally for all your self less acts or feelings you have for them?

AND

Is it even worth to take a silly decision of being “Non-Emotional” as an after-effect of meeting such less-emotional people?

-Rups

Wondering what happened yesterday & why? Written at 11.45pm on 22^nd July 2007 ... Bangalore